"Reality" has nothing to do with where you Subliminal Guru Review are on the ladder between a negative or positive attitude. The negative cynic justifies himself as "just being realistic." The truly positive person urges us on with "The reality is we can change things."
Circumstances have little to do with a positive or negative outlook, either. I have met optimistic single welfare moms who were truly successful in managing their lives and raising their children. I have also met men and women who regarded themselves as professional and personal failures, but who had money and achievements to their credit.
Unless you are a hermit, you are around others in work and life. When you are with others who are more positive than you are, you come away feeling uplifted and encouraged, sometimes inspired. When you are with a negative person for a time, you feel your energy draining away. Whom would you rather be around?